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Harry’s Story

Harry was referred to TLC after the people closest to him noticed he was struggling.

Harry, aged 6, had seen things no child should see. 

At home, the arguments between his parents had turned violent.

Harry saw it happen, and afterwards he didn’t know what to do with everything he was feeling. He was frightened and anxious, and that fear started coming out as anger. The people around him could see he was struggling, but Harry didn’t have the words to explain why. 

That’s when he was referred to TLC. 

Our children’s counsellor met Harry at school, somewhere familiar and safe. Over eight weeks, they worked together, one to one, at Harry’s pace. Using drawing and crafts, they gave his feelings names and shapes. They turned his ‘red thoughts’ into ‘green ones’. He learned bubble breathing for when things felt too big, and together they built a calm down toolbox, full of things that help when the anger comes. 

Most importantly, Harry finally had a safe space to talk about what he’d seen at home, and someone who listened. 

By the end of his sessions, Harry understood his feelings better and knew how to manage them. When asked about the people he could turn to for support, he rated them as ‘great’. He felt safer.

‘Thank you... you really have made a massive difference. He’s really thankful for the work you’ve done together, and he’s really enjoyed it.’
His mum noticed the difference in his behaviour too.

Every child like Harry deserves someone to talk to. This Christmas, help us give them a safe space to be heard. 

Harry’s name and some details have been changed to protect his identity. 

Silent Night Campaign

This Christmas we are asking for donations to help support children affected by domestic abuse. All funds raised will help us continue to provide specialist counselling for children and young people.

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